the messages system need improvments on easysocial .

hi
first :
i test it on the demo site : http://easysocial.stackideas.com/
1-
the users not recieve the messages on real time , (must refresh page ) .
this cause feeling poor between users .
2-
i think that messages from one user must be group in one div not evry word sended has a sengle div
with border-bottom
3-
"Last replied " , on the left side of the conversation .
why not remove this and add list of all conversations ?
i want to tallk about this more :
if 5 users send me a messages , evry conversation for the 5 users will be on 5 pages .
this mean if i want to reply to user 3 i go to user 3 conversation page ant not see the other
conversations on his page .
i want to Suggests to you to add alist of all conversations on the left side then i can to swicth
to any user without refresh the page .
here we get a very nice and sweetly feel to chat with frends .
3b-
focus on the new message without need to scroll down
4-
the user must scroll the page to see messages and to find the submit button .
i think it will be very perfect if fixed the form of the chat (textarea and buttons) on the bottom and make the messages div with scroll without scroll all the page .
i dont want to say like facebook , but i want to say better than facebook .
5-
the green message (Your reply has been posted successfully) ,
if remove it and replace it with highlight the last message with light color for 3 seconds with focus to new message .
6-
the " Your Reply " with small image , please remove it and no need for it .
7-
open photos in popup window .
for now when click on photo it open in new tab or window .
i think if open it with popup box with close bottun will be perfect .
7b-
when add image to message , it will be nice if show a small thumbnail to be sure that not select wrong image
((if yes , maby Separate it to 2 buttons , one fore files and one fore images))
8- if it possible to add smiles or stickers .

i hope to see the message system improved to be the best .

beleave me the message system is the basic and the more thing important in the site .

thank you very much