Really stupid question but how do I get an Easysocial module here

Here is an image

https://www.evernote.com/shard/s120/sh/dde6b424-7813-4867-bd72-b095d7e7ce6d/8a6c7f91bfb59b7e3f4355237d19e521

but i publish to es-unity-sidebar-top

but it doesn't show

and while i'm here. in the wanderers template, how do i get more menu items to show up (or better still) control the options in the drop down under my name ... i'm seeing stuff in there and i'm not sure why or how they get in there

thanks