help with easydiscuss login

HI - on our site we use easydiscuss&easysocial. We use the joomla login for site registration. In the notification that easydiscuss sends takes us to the easydiscuss login (if i am not logged in yet) and not the joomla login. We have joomla registration set inside easydiscuss. How can we fix this

Sort of relate - we use easyprofile along with the joomla login for the social connect logins. Taking them to the easydiscuss login would be somewhat ok but the socialconnect icons from easyprofile somewhat conflict with your component - hence only one of the 3 shows. (facebook does, google and linkedin doesnt)