I was looking at the conversations area in the Easysocial's product page at http://stackideas.com/easysocial
and it seems that you are suggesting that Easysocial can be used as live conversation or chat. The graphic in this section shows a live scrolling responses from different users which update almost instantaneously. When I tried on demo site logging in as two different users and sending private messages between them, the messages doesn't get updated at all. I would get a notification that a new message is received after a few minutes but I would have to refresh the page even if I'm already on the message page with that user.
Am I not doing this correctly? I would love to have the functionality that is shown on the Easysocial's page under the Conversations section.