decided to wipe clean including new db and start fresh using latest version of everything.
google play - thumbnail ok / ssl ok (was not working in previous version)
imgur - thumbnail ok / ssl ok
flickr - thumbnail ok / ssl ok
vimeo - thumbnail ok / playable / ssl broken
youtube - thumbnail ok / not playable / ssl broken (was working in previous version)
soundcloud - thumbnail ok / playable / ssl broken
vine - not supported
instagram - not supported
feel free to add to this list when you encounter it on your site