Can I know how you test this responsive on your site?

If you adjust the browser screen to be smaller then you test it wrongly, you should test it on the browser development responsive mode if you are not planning to test on your actual mobile device.

You can download my attached video and see how I test it.

I test same way as you and also i test on my actual smart phone.
Use iphone 5/se as its a smaller screen.
You can test on the demo site https://ja-intranet.demo.joomlart.com/index.php/en/community/45-james-co

Also could to tell me where to find the language test of "friend request sent" as i would like to make it say "request sent" instead

Thanks

When I see your last screenshot and test on smaller screen then I can replicate this.

Maybe you can make that sentence to shorter, so it can show it nicely.

COM_EASYSOCIAL_FRIENDS_ADD_AS_FRIEND="Add As Friend"

COM_EASYSOCIAL_FRIENDS_REQUEST_SENT="Friend request sent"

You can refer this outlined here how to override the language translation from backend.
https://stackideas.com/docs/easysocial/administrators/languages/creating-language-overrides

Ho do i make it so the menus stay within the profile boundary, because its not very mobile friendly especially if you have small smart phone.

Thanks for the help with the language.

Also how do i remove the "Detect my location" feature completely so it never shows up on anything

You can try download my attached file and replace into your current template file location :

JoomlaFolder/templates/yourCurrentTemplate/html/com_easysocial/helpers/cover/user.php

For those new folder you have to manually create it.

Also how do i remove the "Detect my location" feature completely so it never shows up on anything

Do you mean you would like to hide this? (screenshot : https://monosnap.com/file/kk8R6LoA4BRUpGBnraDlsqEMimYMdz ) but you would like to allow user to share they location?

If yes, we do not have setting to turn it off only detect my location button, but you can apply this following custom css from your site backend > Easysocial > theme > custom css :

body #es .es-location-detect-button[data-story-location-detect-button] {

     display: none !important;

}

Yeah like in your screenshot "Detect my location" is also on when you go to edit profile also where it says address.
I would like it removed from there any any where else it may be.

Thanks for all the other help all them problems are fixed now

Is it possible to fix the black bit where the icons are so they are all allinged correctly like in my attachment i put arrows where they should be

Hello. After enabling "Social Share" I get the same issue. All icons is in one row (line) [screen attached] but I expected it display in two rows. Thanks.

Yeah like in your screenshot "Detect my location" is also on when you go to edit profile also where it says address.
I would like it removed from there any any where else it may be.

Thanks for all the other help all them problems are fixed now

You can try this following css :

body #es .es-location-detect-button {

     display: none !important;

}

Is it possible to fix the black bit where the icons are so they are all allinged correctly like in my attachment i put arrows where they should be

Perhaps you can start a new thread on our forum and update your site backend and FTP login access so I can able to check this directly? because your current situation is different since your site template have display the left side which caused the screen width become smaller which caused this, I need to login on your site and see if there a way to make it show 1 line.

Hey User,

Hello. After enabling "Social Share" I get the same issue. All icons is in one row (line) [screen attached] but I expected it display in two rows. Thanks.

You can try my this modification file for now as what I have mentioned it from my previous reply here https://stackideas.com/forums/easy-social-responsive-issues#reply-510787 .

We will see if we can find a better to render this in next major release version, because there got too many button on the profile header now.