Sam wrote:
If your user do not want themself to be searchable by other people, your user can edit their privacy setting and set the privacy 'profile searching' to 'Me Only'. Please see screencast.com/t/MV85pGyP
That's great that there is a method for users to be able to hide themselves, however this isn't so obvious to many. Especially considering the large number of privacy options. For users in any relationship it doesn't make a lot of sense to display them on the dating module result list. Take for example if my profile had the Relationship Status set to "Engaged", it would not make a lot of sense for me to show up on the dating list. Same principles for many of the other options.
The dating module should be filtered to display only people with the status of "Single, Separated, and Widowed". I won't speak for the "Divorced" status.
By doing this, the search module will be much more effective at finding people who are wanting a relationship by reducing clutter. This will also help save trouble to the people already in a relationship by not receiving requests from others which in some cases may make someone more inclined to leave the site (based on how many people bug them). Don't want to show up on the dating list? Don't go out in public saying that you are single. The same is arguably true in the real world.
In addition to these benefits, it can help non dating sites who want a simple option for users to hide themselves from a people finder list. Of course the language constant would need to be changed so that it didn't seem dating related.