Hey Ibrahim,
You're welcome
Yes, first you have to enable this option from
backend > Easydiscuss > settings > general > workflow > posting private - YES
Second you have to download my attached file and replace into
JoomlaFolder\components\com_easydiscuss\themes\simplistic\form.new.php , so It will set private post by default when the user trying to submit a new discussion.
But unfortunately that can't control which specify category set private by default.