Hey Jon,

I am really sorry for the delay of this reply as it is a weekend for us here. Please find the response to your inquiries below:

Members are getting mad because there is no opt out or unsubscribe at bootom of email that is sent to them is there a way you can turn that on?

This is because you have configured EasyBlog to notify every users on the site. When this option is activated, there will not be an unsubscribe link. I would suggest that you turn off this feature and instead, export your user's list into subscriptions instead. When a new blog post notification is sent to a subscriber, there will be an unsubscribe link.

Also the post shows the entire blog post rather then just a few paragrapghs to tease them with to get them to click to open and generate traffic to the site. Please Help

You will need to configure the truncation settings for new email notifications under Settings > Notifications > Blogs, http://screencast.com/t/8RJIllXZJr7