Maybe you can use 'Easydiscuss - Navigation Module' as shown http://take.ms/SAk7C and see how it goes. If problem still persisted, it would be best if you can provide us with your backend and FTP access for further check on this issues.
thanks for the answer, but it did not resolve, still the toolbar is not visible.
i just put my ftp/admin datails in my profile to help me with this issue, thanks!